The art of fatherhood: Justice Mukheli on redefining masculinity

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In this powerful episode, I sit down with artist, filmmaker and photographer Justice Mukheli, who I've followed for over 12 years. Known for his groundbreaking project "I See A Different You" which beautifully reshapes African narratives, Justice shares his transformative journey into fatherhood with his seven-month-old daughter. We explore how this experience has fundamentally changed him as a man and artist, challenging traditional ideas of masculinity and caregiving.

Justice opens up about the reality behind the fantasy of parenthood - from the humbling experience of watching his wife's pregnancy to the intense mental load of caring for a newborn. He offers candid insights about the privilege of being a man in parenting, the challenges of balancing work with being present, and how his relationship with his daughter has influenced his creative work. His powerful perspective: "Do what feels right for you. Nothing is wrong."

Follow Justice Mukheli:
Website: https://www.justicemukheli.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justicemukheli/?hl=en
Enquiries: info@chilliartprojects.com / mukheli.justice@gmail.com
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/10155915628663643

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Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/za/podcast/on-the-couch-with-carly/id1497585376
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14 May English Explicit South Africa Self-Improvement · Relationships

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